The worst thing ever: ECZEMA!! please help!?

so i've had eczema ever since i was born (im now 15). Im lactose intolerant and when i have dairy, (doesnt really breakout when i have er or cheese, just with plain milk) I tend to breakout with eczema. I know i shouldnt have any milk (but hey, a girl's gotta eat some cereal every now and then) so i've been drinking soymilk. i have eczema on my arms, and on my neck. i also have a little bit of flakiness on my eyebrow lines. Its sorta on the eyelid and on the brow. The left eye is worse than the right and it kinda started to "droop". it seems like the skin is inflamed and it looks like i have a lazy eye. can someone please help me! are there any home remedies that i can put on my eczema and suggest something for my eyes? thanks